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Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus

 Men’s and Women’s worlds are different,

And, it will remain different.

Yet, men and women combine their journey 

to integrate something more beautiful,

Either converge and build something unique,

Or, infuse more difference and indifference.

Men are from Mars,

The warriors who are always engaged in war zones,

Survival and responsibilities, 

With other brothers fighting for life and for good,

Women are from Venus,

Their perspectives are different than their divine counterparts,

Women have a larger than life emotional inner world,

Where they are content with few people in their lives,

They take pride in—

Quality over quantity. 

They count on blessings over benefits.

Their inner circle is rich in bonding and metaphors.

Not superficial, not profit-based, 

Their identity is emulsified and solidified by 

the deep surface they dive into,

Whereas men thrive outwardly,

Their outer world is rich with the combination

 of deep bonds and superficial connections,

They have many stakeholders to deal with.

They get a thrill from it and base their social identity on it.

They have to suppress and repress their emotions to run  those packs

An alpha wolf, a man one becomes eventually!

Men are from Mars, always fighting.

Women are from Venus, always nurturing!

A woman’s identity collapses and depletes

If she cannot nurture and care anymore!

A man falls into an identity crisis,

If they can’t provide and fight for the reasons they value!

©® Farheen Akter Bhuian Nancy 

Time Frame: 12.13.25, 10.54 am, Tagar, MIST

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